Well look at that, get a boyfriend and I drop you all like a hot potato. Actually, truth be told, my work life has been crazy busy, then throw in being a mom and then adding a boyfriend to the mix and you have the makings of the girl who ignored her dating blog.
So life is good right now. Nick is awesomer than awesome. He is quite the romantic and my cell phone is filled with blissful texts from him. We are all sorts of madly in love and I am crossing everything that needs to be crossed that this continues forward this way. One reason I believe in my heart that this is going to work out, is because I found something that I honestly thought was extinct.
The lost art of communication.
Oh.my.God y'all, it was dusty with tons of cobwebs, but dude--it exists! It was like striking gold I tell you. And now that I have found it, it was as if it shed light on everything that was missing from my previous relationships and shook me up realizing that I was actually in a healthy, functional relationship. WOW.
The best part of being in a relationship with a guy who lays it all out on the table, tells you what he is thinking, says what he means and means what he says and clarifies if it appears there is any confusion is that there is never that "not knowing" factor. Did he mean what he said? Is that how he really feels? Is he upset over something I said/did?
None of that happens. And you know what? It is an amazing feeling not worrying that something was taken the wrong way or relatively misunderstood in any way, shape or form.
Quite honestly, the only worry I have is over fear of the future, but for now I am taking it one day at a time and enjoying every minute of it.
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