It's Not the Size That Matters, It's How You Use It

Nothing like MasterDater outing you as a big dick lover, but that is just as surprising to people who know me as it is Ricky Martin finally admitting he is gay.

Several months ago Mike and I had a discussion on a guy's size. Mike was insisting that he was gifted to be larger than the average guy, I shook my head in disbelief. I shared my pre-marriage dating years of guy's around a 7 or 8 but that in the last few years the guy's I have dated, with the exception of 2, were very much on the small side (like 3 or 4. Dude.) That's when the debate began regarding if men who are well endowed are better lovers than guys who are not.

I remember when I met the heartbreaker, he was 5'8" and without an ounce of fat on his body. He always wore very baggy pants and I automatically assumed he was small to average. Imagine my surprise when I thought he was pulling a water hose out of his pants the first time we had sex. I swear to you that he had to be 10-12 inches, no lie. I often joked with him that he was hitting my belly button when we had sex. However, a better lover he did not make. He definitely had potential and things definitely felt good, but it was a bit lackluster.

Guy #2 gave me the "I really love oral" line that usually is the telltale sign that a guy is small so I was surprised when he definitely was not. However, he could only last for 30 seconds. Disappointing.

Nick wears baggy pants as well and I told Mike that when I met him, I tried hard to size him up. Yet, you all know how the clouds parted and the heavens sang when I met him, so I didn't lay as much importance into size as time went on. And, he is of average size, yet totally knows what the heck he is doing. Which just makes me realize the old saying is true, "it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it."

Would you agree?